Wednesday, August 11, 2010

My letter to you


Dear mom I want to forgive you, but I just cant it seems as if every time I think of my highschool years being taken away from me I get angery . I left with feeling like I cant trust no one because of the things you did .I wanted you to be there for me , I also wanted the love and since of concern that I gave my brothers .But I didn’t get that at all . so in saying that I feel that no one should have to bear as much responsibility as I do. Because everyone should get to enjoy the teenange life they have . So my message is to the parents if your not ready to have kids or not ready to do whats necessary for them to have a great life then don’t put tour self in the predicament of having one. I see to many of us tennagers affected today because of what I parents did or didn’t do . I wish to say to those going on with the a problem of growing with out a parent to talk to , to be strong and hold on that you can make it regardless of the situation . and also that making yourself a better person inspite of everything you go through. As well if you become a parent love your child as hard as you can and give them the best life possible because you never know if you might need them one day and they leave you feeling abandon like my mom has left me feeling that way . I felt very misunderstood at times by my mother not everything was peachy when we talked but I seemed to get through it any how . I remember that many great people were misunderstood but yet to people booing or either telling them there thoughts were crazy they still went on doing what they felt was right and was respected later on for it. Marjane was misunderstood by her parents a lot . She knew to make a difference you have to protest and show you are against what people are doing to you . Her parents felt differently about it and that’s were they clashed . But I can relate because my and my mom clash a lot and I just say oh well and go on doing what I need to do for me.

5 comments:

  1. jasmine
    I feel like you should really show this to your mom. dont be afraid to stand up to her. We have your back no matter what. I can see that it is hard for you to stand up for your parents. I think that the way with everyone. Espically me, I am afraid of my mom because she is bossy and she is stubborn. Just dont give up on your self so easily. I know you have the confidence and you can stand up. Dont be a fraid to admit what your feeling.

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  2. Wow I hope your relationship with your mom gets better..."a person who won't forgive someone is worst than the person who needs forgiving"

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  3. t.j you are so right forgiveness is the key a little its better to forgive than hold a gruge! good luck gurl

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  4. i can't relat but i know what u going trought tho because my grand mom was out all the time and didn't take care of my anuties and uncles. my mom was the oldest so she had to take care of three kids and herself plus she had my big sister and i was in her at the time so that didn't do nothing but make you strong girl

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